There are many ways to spot a guy that is frightened by your accomplishments. If you suspect this type of behavior from a man, it proves he feels threatened by you. In such a situation, you shouldn't allow his insecurities to discourage you from fulfilling your dreams.
Most females hide their success from others to prevent men from feeling inferior. A healthy relationship involves two parties supporting one another. You can only achieve this type of success when you discuss the truth about your ambitions with your partner. If you sometimes forget to wear a smile on your face, some males might feel intimidated.
They think that approaching you would get you angry, so they prefer to keep their distance. An easy way to combat this occurrence is to smile more often and wear brighter colors. If you have pale skin, ensure you wear colors that embolden your features. Wearing icy colors would only make you look cold and unapproachable.
More so, have a friendly aura around you and be open to talking to new people. Incorporating these steps can help you seem warmer around the male gender. Even so, you find it hard to keep a relationship for a long period, compared to your friends. Since most men thrive on the dependency of their ladies, an independent woman might threaten their sense of masculinity.
If you have your own life under control and can cater to the demands of others, any man might be scared of not being needed.
However, not all of these qualities hint at a bad character. Your character will also set the bar on the type of associations you prefer to have, which would be frightening to the wrong people. Beautiful women can make even the toughest men stumble on their words. You can chip in casual or funny statements to reduce the tension between you and other guys.
If you feel a man desperately wants to be close to you but stammers and blushes awkwardly around you, you can choose to help him out.
Make him feel comfortable around you to ensure he expresses himself properly. This process will give you a better chance of building the perfect relationship. The male gender thrives on the praise and appreciation of their ladies.
Being outspoken might also make them feel emasculated. Therefore, it comes with its advantages and disadvantages. People will appreciate your realness, but might be too scared of the truth to interact with you.
Balancing this quality to make others warm up to you will be profitable in the long run. Most men avoid self-assured and put-together women because it boosts their ego and makes them feel needed.
On the contrary, a strong woman that knows what she wants and goes for what she wants will dispel some male individuals. If you sense that your independence repels some men, you should practice triggering their hero instinct. Since most male individuals want to feel needed in their relationships, you can involve them in manly tasks to boost their masculinity.
You can also play a damsel in distress around them to make them feel wanted. But from what I can tell, insecure women are attractive despite the fact they're insecure and not because of it.
Oh, joy. We might not always be quick to volunteer that preference, or even always be able to articulate it, but men seek that kind of inspiration. Take it from a guy—these types of girls have mastered the art of approachability. Find out what's attractive to self-assured, well-adjusted men. Intimidating is a word to describe woman of being complex, outspoken, and strong willed.
Unspoken attraction is when two people feel attracted to each other, but they do not say it aloud. This attraction exists based on subtle or clear physical behaviors both parties exhibit when they are close to each other. People can be intimidated for many reasons, such as reputation, body and verbal language , unpredictability, reputation or uncertainty about the value they have to the other person.
Intimidation or harassment is a personalised form of anti-social behaviour , specifically aimed at particular individuals. People experience repeated incidents and problems of intimidation and harassment day after day. In some cases, the victim and the perpetrator live close to each other, often as neighbours. To imtimidate is defined as to frighten someone or to make someone be in awe of you, especially if you do so in order to get what you want. An example of intimidate is to act very tough to scare your enemies.
We might love him and have no problem dating him but the class differences might make it impossible to be together or at least that's how it seems in tons of movies. Pretty much the same thing I find intimidating by other men. This guy's on Reddit finds it intimidating if a girl has more money or is more intelligent than him, and that probably makes more sense than most things on this list. It also makes sense that he finds men like this intimidating.
We can agree that if we have a wealthy friend or someone who has more degrees than us, we might find that intimidating. It's funny how some people are super social and others are homebodies. We might be the life of the party no matter what and enjoy meeting new people, or maybe the opposite is true and we like having a smaller group of friends. If guys get intimidated by a lot of things, which seems to be the case, how do they feel about a social girl?
They are simultaneously super welcoming and very intimidating to me. This guy's Reddit post proves that some guys can be intimidated by women who are social.
Maybe they think that they won't be able to keep up and party all the time with her. Maybe they think that she knows too many people and they won't want to talk to random strangers all the time. Maybe they just find it too much to deal with. This definitely makes sense. If we're on the quiet, homebody side, would we really want to have a boyfriend who is a social butterfly?
The answer is probably not. We just might be too opposite and have too many differences, and honestly, that's fine. There's going to be someone who is more our social speed. Not every couple can be totally equal. One person might have a higher-paying job, another might have more family money, and countless other differences. It doesn't have to be a bad thing. If the couple is truly in love and meant to be together, it won't even matter.
They'll take care of each other and make it work. We know that everyone gets insecure sometimes, particularly when they are interested in dating someone, and we might wonder if guys get insecure about dating a girl who seems "better" than them. More educated than me. Substantially more intelligent than me. Substantially more successful than me. This guy on Reddit gets intimidated when he thinks that a girl is above him in status in terms of good looks, education, intelligence, and success in general.
It sucks to hear this because we don't want to feel like we have to dumb ourselves down or stop being accomplished in order to be attractive to guys, and we have a certain pride about how we look.
It doesn't seem super fair to hear that this can be intimidating, but maybe we have come across this before with guys and so it makes total sense to us. It's awesome when we meet someone who is super real and honest and always gives us their opinion. Hopefully they're not mean about it because that's not cool, but otherwise, it can be refreshing to know that this person isn't fake.
We love having friends who tell it like it is because we know that they can always give us good advice. They're not going to just nod and smile and tell us what we want to hear, like other well-meaning people in our lives. How do guys feel about a woman who tells it like it is?
Is it an attractive quality to have Someone I have to prove my worth towards. This particular Reddit post tells us that it can definitely be intimidating. This guy's statement that he's intimidated by a woman he has to "prove his worth towards" makes sense We can't just commit to anyone, we have to know that they care about us and are going to treat us well. It's really good if girls act that way. We've heard about the whole "resting [explicit] face" thing and while at this point it's a joke or a meme, we probably wonder if some girls really do look like that all the time Do guys ever think that a girl seems kind of cold?
Would that be intimidating, and would they still want to date her, or would they be all, "No thanks"? Have any of us been told by guys that we couldn't be their girlfriend because we're cold or unemotional?
I get that some people aren't going to always be the life of the party. But some just have this constant searing look of disdain on their face. This guy posted on Reddit that he's not into dating a girl who seems "cold" and that would seem intimidating, so yes, that's definitely our answer.
This is a good reminder that even if we think that we look normal and friendly, maybe we don't, and maybe a guy that might otherwise want to ask us out or want to be in a relationship with us assumes that we don't like him or that we're always in a bad mood.
When we like someone and want to start a relationship with them, we have to assume that they would like us back. We don't have to be super conceited and, of course, we probably shouldn't be since there is nothing less attractive than that but we need to believe that we could be attractive and interesting to someone else.
And we should also believe that we would make a good girlfriend. But that being said, we definitely assume that some guys are "too good for us" and that they would never be interested in dating us, and so it would make sense that some guys would like at us that way.
Do guys think that some girls are just not going to want to date them?
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